Sunday, February 14, 2010

Not time travelling but divorced dad travelling

Last night I rented "The Time Travelers Wife" It was an Okay movie, decent enough that I didn't turn it off, --It didn't suck.
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Today As I was doing some Sunday Errands the whole thing got me thinking. As far as my Children, I have pretty much the same problem. Not in the sense that I bee-bop around into the past and future or anything, but in the sense that on average I see my kids for a weekend every third week. Just like the time traveler movie, He pops in and out of his life with his wife because he is a time traveler that can't control when he travels through time.
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Sometimes stuff happens and its two weeks, sometimes its 4 weeks, but generally I pop in and out of their lives every three weeks. We talk occasionally on the phone in between , but the reality of it is that they live their lives and I get to see how it is turning out for them on an interval basis one weekend sliver at a time.
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Did drive up to Gainesville to catch my son's basketball game yesterday before my x-wife and kids took off to Destin to see Their Grandmother and Grandfather. It was two hours up, 40 minutes or so watching, then 2 hours back to Tampa. That is not just a sliver of his life, that is like the crumbs from the sliver but it is at least the good crumbs with the frosting part still on it.
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He played well defensively and scored one basket in their 34 to 20 win. My X-wife had forgotten I was coming, so she had left my daughter at home to pack for their trip. She did go back and get her though, and I found out that she made Straight A's this past Semester in school. (my daughter, ---my x-wife doesn't go to school) -

2 comments:

your psycho ex-girlfriend said...

bill you are an awesome dad. in fact i wish you were my dad.

will you be my daddy?

Bill From Gainesville said...

Psycho I would totally be your daddy as long as you are past college age. I have two of em I will need to send that way and cannot afford a third...